One is the Loneliest Number

I remember having to write about this statement in college, and either agree or disagree with it: Every man is an island. I'm sure back then I was probably young and stupid enough to think that I could take on the world alone and survive, but over the last few years I've realized just how important it is to surround yourself with people who can encourage, strengthen, and motivate you. I am so thankful for my wife. Eventhough I have dragged her into a life of ministry (with all the joys and pains that brings) she's adapted well and is continuing to grow into that "new" role as pastor's wife. I was thinking the other day about my first ministry position out of college: I was young, single, and clueless. I wonder how much different things would have been if she was there with me. I believe that she is just now starting to realize the incredible opportunities that are waiting for her. I'm thankful for friends who periodically call or send an email; it's good to be reminded by friends, some of whom have been separated by a long distance for some time, that the impact I had on their lives still holds value-and vice versa. I'm thankful for new friends who can challenge and sharpen my life. I'm thankful for podcasts and blogs of leaders I respect-what a great tool for ensuring that someone is always pouring in and mentoring-even from hundreds of miles away. I'm thankful for the incredible resource of books by amazing theologians, philosophers, church leaders, and pastors. I'm thankful for family who can provide a sounding board and good advice. Here is a good piece of advice: If you aren't intentionally surrounding yourself with people who can help bring out the best in you, then you will, by default, be surrounded by people who will probably not take time to actively pour into your life. Simple Application: Find a mentor or find a detractor, the choice is yours.